is busted that they want to spin the situation as complicated. Theres even a relationship designation for that on online dating sites you arent married or single, no, youre in a state of its complicated. This column ran previously. If you squint long enough, it reads Im not a bad person. The truth was somewhere in between. If you are married, dont fuck people you arent married. If youre single, dont fuck married people. Well, clearly you lack the intelligence and open-mindedness necessary to reconcile deceit with good character. Feel free to comment! To him, truth was situational. Apparently, infidelity is so full of nuance and subtlety that only enlightened sophisticates can understand. Cant you see that?! Maybe you lack compassion for the broken people who cheat. It really depended how you looked. Did I mean it when I said I loved you? Its all very complicated is a convenient ruse for crappy behavior. .